Has someone ever blown your mind within the first few minutes of meeting them? Nothing physical, just their decency and ability to engage in a proper adult conversation. Because of its rarity in my life lately, I find it very refreshing! It’s kind of like the rhythm you form when throwing a ball back and forth without dropping it. It’s a very comfortable feeling knowing adults like this still exist.
I am not easily intrigued but I do have this new found interest in people and social etiquette. There are levels that most people aren’t able to reach simply because it involves you selling yourself to a complete stranger! Sort of like an interview. That “Tell me about yourself” question that some people hate hearing. LOL. How do you know that the other person will be accepting to you, your background, your career, your upbringing, your political and religious views, hell, your personality even!? Unfortunately, you don’t know. You can only hope that as a decent person you will be accepted for who you are.
What’s not ok is fearing the exposure of who you really are isn’t enough and creating a person within yourself that you’d rather pass off as you. I don’t condone. I do however understand it. If you’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting someone like me then you’d realize that your ethnicity, financial stability, career choice and background almost never play a role in my initial assessment of you. Not every rich person is decent and not every poor person is classless.
Everyone has a story to share, but they are usually afraid of the listener’s view of them. When the only thing that matters are the values instilled in you at childhood because they are worth far more than anything you can buy. So yes, good people are fantastic! You just have to put a little effort in finding the ones who are willing to show just how fantastic they can be!
Xoxo
Monica